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why does my boyfriend acts like he doesnt want to have sex with me ?

By December 5, 2010 - 12:06pm
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ok.... me and my partner in life just had a baby 3 months ago an adorable baby boy and after my doctor gave us the ok for having sex again we started out slow and worked our way back up and the sex was great. he wanted to have sex like twice a day but i didn't now i feel much better and want to have sex like all the time when its possible but he doesn't he will get an erection but he wont want to have sex with me i don't believe he is tried because i get up in the middle of the night with the baby he doesn't and he is not working right now and im a full time student and i work part time im confused and feel really down like im being to pushy and i have talked to him but there seems like that doesn't work what should i do

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Maybe he feels emasculated because it sounds like you are on the road to success and he isn't. Perhaps if he gets a job or begins school he will feel like more of a man, and things may go back to normal.

December 8, 2010 - 1:22am

When you have talked with him...what does he say?

December 5, 2010 - 2:24pm
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