We have known each other since childhood and have dated off and on for years. We began an official committed relationship almost a year ago and moved in with eachother about 2 months ago. My man has never been very interested in sexual intercourse, although we did have a sexual relationship. Since he has moved in, his drive seems depleted. He says he is too lazy for sex or says he doesn't want children. He is 25 and I'm 24. I've asked him if he thinks I'm gross or something, and he says no, but I can't take the rejection any more. I don't know if he isn't attracted to me or if I've done something to make him not want me. He makes me feel like a slut because I always want sex and he never does. I'm not that type of person though. I just want to physically express my love for him. I am a sexual person, and I feel like we are missing out on forming certain bonds together and completely lacking physical intimacy that should bring us closer together. What can I do? I know he would never be willing to go to therapy. How can I get him to open up and talk about it? I'm so confused.
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