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why my boyfriend dont have sex with me

By Anonymous March 4, 2015 - 2:33pm
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is been a year that we been together it was sex everyday and now i find myself begging and is not atractive to do that he his not opening for discusion now i am frustraited and mad i feel not wanted i really want to fix this or i guess i have to run pleas help me

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Guys are strange. Try something different like an outfit or adult movie. If that won't work, ask him directly. If nothing from that either. Time to check out and find a man who wants to satisfy you in all ways including in the bedroom.

March 19, 2015 - 4:36pm

Hi Anon,


Thank you for sharing your question with the EmpowHER community!

I'm sorry to hear that you are experiencing a difficult time in your relationship.  Sex and communication are very important aspects of a relationship.  If you aren't getting either, that's real cause for concern.  

Maybe you should take inventory of you and your boyfriend's interactions leading up to when he stop wanting to engage in sex to see if there is anything that would give you a clue into his behavior.  But even with this, without his being open to discussing it, it sounds like he might have moved on emotionally.

If there is something that you know your boyfriend is unhappy about and you had some involvement in, this could be the culprit.  

Ultimately, you should take care of yourself (even if that means moving on) and whatever happens learn from this experience.

I hope this helps.  

Be well,


March 4, 2015 - 3:07pm
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