My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 1 year. I cant say that the relationship has been fabulous in the sex department really ever, we started out having sex almost everyday in the first couple of weeks ( after dating for about 3 months) of our relationship but passion nor kissing never really happened. Now we have sex maybe once a month if that. we have kissed about 5 times in our entire relationship!BUT... here is the thing i know how much he cares about me he shows it in other ways, his family and friends could definitely validate that. we do everything together spend every night together, im included in all his activities, we run every morning do homework together, and tell each other almost everything.I really dont think he has cheated on me but i cant figure out why this is happening, i feel like in his past relationships he was sexually driven and mutual friends could also validate that. i did go though a phase were i gained a little bit of weight but since then have lost weight and am actually smaller then i was when we first starting dating. He is everything i was in a guy EXCEPT for the lack of passion and sexual desire which is big enough for me to seek out other options. i am a very affectionate person and need affection in my life. YES i have talked to him about it, he says its nothing he has no problems with having sex with me, hes definitely not stressed about anything he lives the good life, and stays healthy along with annual check ups.
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