Do you think this is normal?
Been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years 7 months. We live together but we haven't had sex since march.
He never initiates any sex with me and don't seem bothered.
He never mentions that he is concerned that we are not having sex.
It's only me that will mention to him that I think theres something wrong with our relationship and he always then comes out with every excuse he can think of.
When we used to have sex he would a lot of the time lose his erection or sometimes can't even get an erection. When I point this out to him he always says there is nothing wrong with me it's you which really annoys me. I've told him to speak to his doctor as he's on blood pressure tablets but he won't. Think he's obviously in denial.
Any advice please
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Hello, Evan's50. Thank you for your message.
I think you have done all you can do if you have spoken to him about it and he refuses to discuss it or even admit that he has a problem. Obviously, there is something going on either emotionally or physically or both and perhaps he is embarrassed to admit it and/or ask for help. Women are sometimes more open to addressing things like this and seeking help than men. We have a very active similar thread you might want to check out. You can read others stories, comment, and share your own if you like. At least you would see you are not alone. Also, his BP medication might be a factor. He really should ask his doctor about this.
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Helena
October 21, 2017 - 5:05amThis Comment