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Sex with an Uncircumcised Man

 
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I’ll be honest; I had to do a lot of research before sitting down to write this article. I have only come into contact with one uncircumcised penis during my short stint as a single adult woman, and it didn’t really seem to be that big of a deal at the time.

However, when it comes to uncircumcised (commonly spelled "uncercumsized") penises, there’s more than meets the eye . Approximately 50% of men are “uncut,” which is really how the penis is meant to be in the first place (not many men outside the United States are circumcised). Circumcision originated among ancient religious populations as a way to purify man by removing the source of his sexual pleasure. This tradition has held its ground into the 21st century, which can lead to quite a bit of confusion when a woman unexpectedly comes into contact with a penis au naturale.

It may surprise you to learn that the foreskin itself, before it is separated from its owner, is extremely sensitive to pleasure. During circumcision two very important things are removed that will never grow back: the frenulum, the band near the tip of the penis that connects the foreskin with the glans, and then of course, the foreskin and all the nerve endings that go along with it.

Not only are these sources of pleasure eliminated during circumcision, but the shaft of the penis is left unprotected and slowly loses its responsiveness through a process called keratinization. In an article published in Fathering Magazine, Rio Cruz explains that “the male glans and inner foreskin, just like the clitoris and inner labia of women, are actually internal structures covered by mucous membrane that, when exposed to the air and harsh environment through circumcision, develop a tough, dry covering to protect the delicate, sensitive tissue.”

The main difference in having sex with an uncircumcised penis is that the foreskin acts as a glider of sorts, and it stays in place while the glans and shaft continue to thrust. This leads to less friction in the vagina and thus a more pleasurable experience for the female.

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Anonymous

I was circumcised at 25, almost 20 years ago. I had plenty of sex before, and plenty after. My penis is no less sensitive now than it was pre-circumcision and, and this will get all in 'inactivitsts' going, I'd honestly say sex is better without the foreskin. For those that like to argue about the loss of all the nerve endings, I'd suggest you go and actually learn what the procedure is about - it certainly is not lopping off all of the foreskin and loose millions of pleasure giving nerve endings.... I know!

And from what I can ascertain, there was not much in it from the women's side. Some preferred the feeling of a circumcised penis, some preferred the look on an uncircumcised, most didn't care less.

And all this talk of the so called 'gliding action', which may be a thing for some with a foreskin, but not all because foreskins, like all parts of the human body, come in all thickness' and lengths. Some foreskins are naturally so short they appear circumcised when erect, some so long that the head barely gets out; so claiming an uncircumcised penis will be this, or do that, is just plain daft!

Then there's this whole thing about how women don't get dry with an uncircumcised partner... well for some women, the pill effectively 'dries them up' making the use of lube essential, it has nothing to do with a foreskin. I've been in two relationships where the use of the pill was akin to turning a tap. On it, dry and lube needed every-single-time; off it, no problems. Do any of the inactivist claims take this into account, I bet not.

And to all those women telling men their penis' should feel like this, or that, and you are missing out because, and... STOP IT! You are not the owner of a penis, so you do not qualify for an opinion. End of story. If a woman is trying to give an opinion about what a penis should or should not be doing, tune out, right there and then.

Look, this is and forever will be an endless argument. Do what you want with your kids, there's not right or wrong. If you are a man with a foreskin, or without, be happy. If you are a woman, get to know what your guy likes, it about using what he's got and really, foreskin or not, learn how to use it and you both will have a great time. But articles like this, based on one the mumbo-jumbo science of the so called 'anti lobby' are misleading at best, dangerous at worst. I know what it's like to be uncircumcised and I know what it's like to be circumcised and honestly, all these bizarre claim being touted as fact... well, they are just bizarre claims, nothing else.

May 31, 2017 - 2:09am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

So when a American woman gives you oral sex you say stop being so rough I'm sensitive down there ? That's what I do because I was never circumcised. American woman are not used to it. You change form without altering the function of gland. So your statement is not true. When you cut off thousands of nerves off your gonna be less sensitive. What happens in another 20 years. Numb tip is what is. I think your trying to justify your self getting cut. You lost a gift from god you will never get back!

May 31, 2017 - 10:54am
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Anonymous

I'm in the UK where culturally we leave penises alone and dont do unnecessary, painful, dangerous and cruel surgury on them. I have read so much rubbish about circumcision being totally safe (look up deaths, accidental penis amputations, disfigured penises) or cleaner (we have soap and water over here and it works great). Claims that it reduces HIV infections while true overstate things massively and maybe increase risky behaviour if guys think they are invulnerable. Claims on penile cancer are rubbish as rates in Israel where 100% are circumcised are the same as in Sweden where 99% of the population are not. So i am anti circumcision except for medical needs. Also having slept this natural men an those with mutilated penises i can confirm natural ones feel nicer inside me and are more fun to play with and suck. Btw do you know rates of cutting in the usa are now around 50% and falling so its not true that its the norm to cut anymore.

December 29, 2016 - 3:19am
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Anonymous

I have a boyfriend that is uncircumcised, we been trying to get pregnant for the past year, so far no luck, anyone know any ideas on how we should go about it!??? & im so not giving up on him cause I love him!!! ❤️

August 4, 2016 - 1:41am
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Anonymous

Can we all stop saying uncut. You can't undo something that wasn't done. It's stupid. Btw don't cut shit off of babies. It's sick and disgusting. All those poor baby boys. It's inhumane. For reals. Stop. Blood coming from the penis as a child? You think that's good that you're doing that? It's mind blowing! Do it as an adult who cares. Just give the lil guy the choice. But come on for real? Cutting up babies ain't cool.

February 8, 2016 - 2:19am
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Anonymous

After looking into female and male circumsicion, and having a baby girl of my own, I have officially decided thanks to this article that if we have a boy the next time around, he WILL NOT be circumsiced. No gender should be mutilated. I think if this is a procedure someone wants later in life,they should go for it. But by THIER will. I feel so awful for once believing male circumcision is the way to go.

December 18, 2015 - 6:23am
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon

Thanks for your post! 

 

Please don't beat yourself up about it.  If you are in the USA, then circumcision was standard procedure for boys.  It's not like that anymore.  Muslims and Jews are circumcise their boys on a regular basis and it is still standard for many. 

To this day, many cultures do body modifications that would seem dreadful to others. 

"When we know better, we do better" - right?! 

Susan

December 18, 2015 - 8:35am
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Anonymous

My foreskin used to be really tight. Tight to the point where it hurt when it was retracted. It was awful. Per my doctor's suggestion, I started using a penis health creme that contained Vitamin E and shea butter. Things are so much better down there now! The skin slides easily and smoothly, and I can finally enjoy pain-free sex. I just wanted to share this tip with some of my fellow uncut brothers out there. Hope this helps some of you!

June 2, 2015 - 9:51am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

What is the name of the creme?

July 18, 2015 - 12:08am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

The creme is called Man1 Man Oil. It is by far the best one out there, and it has helped me in a number of ways. You can get it online. Good luck!

October 21, 2015 - 7:05am
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