Why Your Man's Mood Changes So Easily part 2
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Why Your Man's Mood Can Change So Easily Part 2
Hi All- Hope you enjoyed Part I, "Why Your Man's Mood Can Change So Easily."
Other reasons why you may be second guessing your man's mood changes or his intentions are some of the following:
Stress at work and home, not that you're not vulnerable to this too, can alter both hormone levels of testosterone as well as levels of the feel-good hormones (endorphins, oxytocin). Stress leads to increased levels of the bad neurotransmitters (adrenaline, noradrenaline and even cortisol, your own natural steroid). When these "bad" chemicals are released they may trigger many responses from, anxiety, feeling withdrawn, becoming quiet, nervous, appetite variability and even.......ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION and Premature Ejaculation!!!!!!
It can appear like this: Trying to get him into "the mood," doesn't seem so easy and he responds like a "fish upside down in the bowl, moments from doomsday." Or, if you are cuddling away and he normally responds "at attention," and you notice that his "weapon" has "turned into jello!" Or, if you are beginning to enjoy intercourse and he becomes, "missing in action." Or, just as you are starting to get into it, he "dishonorably discharges!!!" These are but a few of the scenarios, obvious to both of you, that which is supposed to be construed as a time to lower your stress, not increase it. Sex was obviously designed for procreation, but also, just plain fun and intimacy and bond-building.
In the clinic my favorite expression to the guys is, "If you think you're going to fail in the middle of it or never get your 'plane' off the ground," then.... you might as well play "Monopoly" or solitaire!!!!!!!!!!!
Women need CONSTANT VALIDATION ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIPS!! ( Not that men don't need that constant "pat on the back," or, "Great job honey!!")
When sex is great, "He Must Love Me!" When sex gets derailed like a bad train on a slippery track, "He Doesn't Love Me Anymore!' or, "I don't excite him anymore!" (Ladies, what do you think drives women to Bloomies perfume counter and V's Secret???)