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I am 21 years old and we had sex with my boyfriend for the 1st time on may 10, we used condom and pull out.. I expected to have my period next week after the day we had sex since I monitor my menstruation.. But after a week my period did not come..the 1st week we had sex sometimes I felt dizzy in the morning especially when I lack of sleep..I did not notice any changes in my body.. The 2nd week came and there was still no period.. I had a slight cramps, I thought my period was approaching but I was still disappointed.. On 3rd week I felt something different in my body.. I am always hungry, I have mood swings, I have cramps.and back pain.. Its all stressing me out I dont kbow what to do.. I cant be pregnant because my family will get disappointed me.. I and my bf know that we did all our best not to het pregnant.. Now Im 3 weeks late with my period.. I did not tried any preggy test because Im so damn scared to know abt the result.. Please help me out gurls out there.. Thankyou very much...
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Thank you very much for your reply.. Your msg helped me to become calm.. Btw I am planning to drink parsley tea.. I search on the internet that this could help induce period.. But it also can cause miscarriage.. Do you think it is safe to drink that kind of tea? Im always trying convince myself that my period will come but stress always driving me crazy.. I believe that using condom is 98% effective and its quite impossible for me to get pregnant.. I also plan to go to the doctor if my period becomes 1 month late..
Being hungry at all times, having back pain, and mild cramps.. Could these be a symptoms of pregnancy or just PMS?
June 7, 2014 - 8:17pmI will be very grateful for your answer.. Thank you again..
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Hi Anon,
It could be PMS. But you need to take a home pregnancy test or see a doctor. Since your period is late.
Best,
Daisy
June 9, 2014 - 4:38amThis Comment
Thank you for your help.. My period just came today.. I think it was because I took a high dosage of vitamin C and also ate lots of mangoes and pineapples a week ago.. But maybe it's just my taught..
Thank you once again, God bless you..
June 9, 2014 - 8:03pmThis Comment
Hi Anon,
Welcome to EmpowHER. The pull out or withdrawal method is not safe. If you used a condom correctly, it's unlikely you will be pregnant. If you feel you are late and did not miscounted the days on your cycle. You should take a home pregnancy test to know if pregnancy is what's causing a delay. Many other conditions, including stress can cause changes to a woman's ovulation and menstruation. Hope this was helpful?
Best,
Daisy
June 7, 2014 - 4:37pmThis Comment