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By Anonymous June 5, 2016 - 11:28am
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Hi empowher

Hope you can ease my fear. I gave my bf a handjob (hate that word but Yh) .. Thereafter he fingered me -
There was no penis penetration into my vagina

He ejaculated on himself and I don't know if he cleant himself properly. He gingered me after. I feel so clumsy. WORST CASE: there was traces of sperm.
Would pregnancy only be likely if he fingered me IMMEDIATELY ? Or does it not matter

My next expected period is towards the end of this month and I'm so nervous and scared

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Hello and welcome to EmpowHer,
You cannot become pregnant from this situation. He needs to ejaculate into your vagina during penetration in order for pregnancy to occur. Sperm dies within a few minutes in open air. But fingering with sperm on the fingers cannot cause pregnancy.
Below I have pasted a link to an article that talks more about outercourse and pregnancy.

June 5, 2016 - 9:31pm
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