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By February 1, 2019 - 2:35am
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To whom this may concern
So i had just finished having my period on january 8th.. My boyfriend came over january 18-21st i had sex for the first time with him and we used a condom and he never finished aka cummed in the condom or anything after we stopped i made him go to the bathroom to check the condom for holes just to be cautious and so he filled it with water all the way to the top and said no holes.. i was relieved! but My period is supposed to start in 5 days and as normal i started getting bad cramps the week before it’s supposed to start which is usual for me and sore boobs i just went pee and i wiped and i had the brown discharge like i would normally get when i first start my period.. i have had my period early one time before but i just wanted to make sure from a grown ups opinion on whether they think im in the clear and im not pregnant.. please help i have anxiety and don’t want to stress :(( thank you to whoever answers

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Hello maranda101

Thank you for writing.

Since you used a condom properly, there is little to no risk of pregnancy, especially as there was no ejaculation. It seems your period is coming a few days early but this shouldn't be of concern.


February 1, 2019 - 3:56am
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