I was on the depo for about a year and I got taken off of it last year because I gained 50 pounds and I bled constantly. After I was taken off of that they put me on the pill and I would take it regularly at about the end of the summer I stopped taking it regularly because I would forget and I only would take it when I would remember and sometimes I would take more then 1 pill at a time. On November 12th I had sex for the 1st time in almost a year, he wore a condom and did not ejaculate inside of be because he was trying not too. I did take 2 at home pregnancy tests at different times of day and they were both negative. I still haven't gotten my period but I haven't had a normal period since before the depo. I don't know what to do I have my yearly check up in a couple days but I don't know how to talk to my doctor because I am afraid they will contact my mom please help.