I already made a sex with a ex boyfriend many times. Now I am going to marry another person. if he come to know about my virginity or my Virginia is loose..

Hi Anon,

Thank you so much for sharing your question with the EmpowHER community. The size of a woman's anatomy varies by individual and it is highly unlikely that your husband would know if you are a virgin or not. He may have his suspicions by how you respond when you are having sex, but it wouldn't be because he thinks you are "stretched out."

Have you told your husband that you were a virgin when you got married? You may want to keep in mind that the most successful marriages are those where both people have been truthful with each other.  Also keep in mind that if you had sex with a past boyfriend you could have been potentially exposed to any sexually transmitted diseases that could be contagious to your husband.

I would be sure to get screened for any STDs and think more about coming clean with your husband about your previous sex life. Honesty is a vital component in any relationship and especially marriage.

Anon, did this help?

Best,

Kristin