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I'm worried for her

By March 17, 2014 - 9:35pm
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Can i ask if a girl previously had an abortion , the possibility of getting pregnant will reduce ? I'm very worried for a friend of mine . She had sex with a guy on 2013 oct and found pregnant during dec 2013 , she went for abortion . This year 2014 feb between 14 to 17 , she had unprotected sex again and that guys ejected inside . During feb 18 her menses came . During march 8th me and her was touching each other , she insisted of me putting mine penis inside her but i rejected , however i agreed to just rub , when she was rubbing , she tried to insert but i keep stop her , however i cant really see or feel if she already inserted . But she insisted she didn . However after rubbing , i finger her . I'm scare and worried and feeling lost now so can someone ans me if she will be pregnant by me if i rubbed with her and after that finger her ? Will the way i finger her help pre ejected (if there is) to enter her tube more effectively ? Cause today is the 18th and she not yet menses . During 11 she went to check pregnancy test using the tube thingy but negative . Iszt too early to use the test for the feb incident ?
Can anyone give me some feedback ? I'm worried for her future . Pls pray for her safety :(

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After she rubbed me, if got pre eject on her surface of vagina , and i finger her , will she get pregnant ? And when should she test for pregnancy test ?

March 18, 2014 - 4:06am
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Then will fingering after rubbing with penis allow better chance of getting pregnant ? Taking the possibility if got pre ejectculation .

March 18, 2014 - 4:02am
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Hi regret,

Welcome to EmpowHER. If there was no intercourse or penetration, then she can not be pregnant by you. If she is having sex with other people, you might want to stay away from having any sexual contact with her.  Aside from pregnancy, you might want to avoid getting an STD. Hope this was helpful?



March 18, 2014 - 2:54am
(reply to Anonymous)

Sorry can get back to me ? :(

March 18, 2014 - 5:56am
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