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By April 10, 2010 - 4:50pm
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I have a really random question. I think it's more acceptable for men to and not for women to. I was talking to my best friends about this and I wanted more people's opinions on this so ... do you think it's appropriate for girls/women to masturbate? And if so, at what age is it appropriate to begin to do so?

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I think it a great that you would think of yourself so highly to pleasure yourself. That is a feeling we were all given and there might be nobody or might never be someone around to experience it. Why let age have anything to do with it?

May 16, 2011 - 4:55am
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i love masturbating

July 31, 2010 - 3:09pm
EmpowHER Guest

wow. ok. for a 16 year its normal. But are u male or female? either way it doesnt matter. jus be careful and clean wen u do it.

April 12, 2010 - 2:27pm
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I'm a female :)


July 18, 2010 - 7:04pm

Thank you all so much for yourcomments! They're really helpful. In answer to the question 'Anonymous' asked, I'm 16.


April 12, 2010 - 2:19pm

I got to say I used to think that is was kind of weird for a girl to masturbate but I guess that was when I was having sex regularly so I never needed to. Now my boyfriend has hit this slump when it comes to sex, he is never into it and it drives me crazy so I HAVE to masturbate so stay sane. Going on a month without sex while being in a relationship is difficult so I find myself doing it more when we havent had sex for awhile and I think its perfectly normal and acceptable for women to do so. I mean men do it all the time, y cant women?
Its a little unfair because its harder for women to come to the same results as men in masturbating. I know its quite difficult for me to reach orgasm but it still feels good and its completely normal and healthy.

April 12, 2010 - 1:32pm
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u may not believe me but even the bible says not to play wit yourself. But we do it anyway. It's completely normal for both sexes. How old r u??

April 12, 2010 - 5:39am
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It's really quite subjective. Are you the touchy/feely type of person? Meaning, were you used to tactile relationships with your parents when you were young? Then you might start doing it at an early age.

April 12, 2010 - 4:00am

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April 11, 2010 - 7:11am

I think that's a great idea! How do I make it a poll?


April 11, 2010 - 6:56am
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