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me and my boyfriend had sex Alfie first time and it can go in more then half way and feel good but after that I get a really really bad pain and the pain feels like an extreme amount of pressure does this mean we haven't broke the hymen

By Anonymous September 7, 2017 - 3:50pm
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Hello Anon

Thank you for your post.

You may or may not have a hymen. Many women who are virgin's don't. They could be born without one, lose it in many ways including exercise, biking, horse-riding or other activities. A hymen is not a direct connection to virginity. Sex in the beginning can be difficult - often through nerves and awkwardness. Use of a lubricant can help.

September 8, 2017 - 5:14am
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