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My boyfriend doesn't have sex with me anymore?

By July 23, 2015 - 10:36am
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I have been dating my boyfriend for four months now and I am head over heels in love with him. At the begining of our relationship (the first three months) everything was wonderful, we had sex all the time, and by all the time, I mean every day, and we would always do foreplay to please each other and because we wanted too, this past month by boyfriend has become sexually distant, he has gone down on me maybe once or twice and we went from having sex every day to a few times a week, When we do have sex he finishes within minutes, he always says "sorry, I couldn't help it". When he goes so quickly, I don't get upset with him because I don't want to make him feel badly. I always have to sat "let's have sex" and sometimes he just flat out rejects me "I'm too tired" "No time". It really bothers me, I feel like he isn't attracted to me and I wonder if he ever will be again. Can anyone give me advice on why he doesn't go down on me anymore? Why he doesn't jump on me like he used too? Is there any tips on how I can fix this? It's making me feel really sad... I don't feel wanted or like he finds me attractive.... he tells me I'm "beautiful" often but I feel like if he finds me so beautiful why wouldn't he want me? I have tried to talk to him about this four times now.. the first time I asked if there was someone else and he flipped out... the other three times he got really angry and told me that we just don't have time and he's too tired. He wants me over every day and we will cuddle in bed and fall asleep together but i am getting sexually frustrated and I'm hurt. Any advice would be greatly appreciated...

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My boyfriend just started doing that to me and he makes me feel like he's not very interested in me. He's actually coming over right now and he before leaving he called me to confirm that we won't be having sex because he's "too tired." I'm not sure what to do. I told him I'm counting every time he regets me so that he'll feel guilty and worry about himself not doing his job. I know it sounds kind of sluty but, you have to threaten these men in a nice manner sometimes. It's the only way that they'll change.

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