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my boyfriend having sex with me very rudely and forcefully and bleeding.i am worried why it is happing so?

By Anonymous March 12, 2015 - 12:46pm
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please help me.i am 22 year old.my boyfriend not listening to me.he just having sex like he is raped me.first time its happening bleeding start and also swallow my private part.

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Hi Anon,

Thank you for sharing your question with the EmpowHER community!

Sex is suppose to be a good thing that strengthens an intimate relationship.  If during sexual intercourse you feel offended or violated, you're not getting either benefit.

Have you tried talking with your boyfriend and sharing your concerns?    

There is an saying..."You teach people how to treat you." You should not be left feeling disrespected after sex.

I would suggest opening up dialogue with him, because sex should be enjoyable for both of you.  Lastly, I would make an appointment to get yourself checked out and to make sure your vaginal health is okay.

I hope this helps you sort things out.  

Be well,


March 12, 2015 - 3:07pm
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