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my boyfriend wanted me to satify myself instead of having sex

By Anonymous August 29, 2014 - 11:42am
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the other night he wanted to use toys then told me to go ahead and orgasm. we hadnt even touched him yet . we both know once i orgasm were done thats always been that way . so my question is is he cheating or is something else wrong. i asked him and he says he just didnt want to disappoint me because he needed to ejaculate also .but its days later and he still hasnt wanted sex

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Hi Anon,

Thank you for sharing your question with the EmpowHER community!

Men can often be insecure about pleasing their partners. If he says it's because he didn't want to disappoint you, you can probably take his word for it. 

I don't know if he's cheating or what he is feeling. Try to ask him without attacking him or pressuring him.

Let me know what happens.



August 29, 2014 - 12:27pm
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