yesterday was my first time. my hymen broke but penis wasn't entered into my vagina because tightness and pain . we used condom but he didn't ejaculated because penis didn't enter into vagina. he removed condom because he wasn't feeling anything then he rub dick against my vagina but no ejaculation. then he wore new condom for second try but again dick not entered in my vagina. he pre-cum lit a bit for three times but not ejaculated still aroused dick. because he was in stress because its our first time and we don't know how to do sex . intercourse wasn't done but my hymen broke. i am feeling pain all over down there, feeling like sore cut, over vaginal layers, abdominal region, legs, backache . should i use any kind of precautions or sentilizer after hymen broke? i bleed whole day then brown discharge came out. so can i get pregnant? my periods was expected today but it's not come. i am gonna wait for three more days but if menses won't start should i do a pregnancy test? because i heard before and after menses there are very bright chance to get pregnant. and i am still confused did i do sex or not? doing intercourse is sex? and we didn't do penetration or intercourse.