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no period for 4 months and negative pregnancy test?

By Anonymous January 28, 2017 - 4:37pm
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My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he told me i might be pregnant. I decided to get a test from the store and the pack came with two, so i took both. I did as directed and with morning pee on the tests i waited a few minutes. One was positive and the other negative. After that i told him and we both assumed i was pregnant so we just have passed by thinking that im pregnant. Since we thought i was pregnant we continued to have unprotected sex with the no risk factor since im pregnant according to one test. I started having symptoms like feeling fatigue, sleeping more, major mood and emotional changes, cramping that i have not experienced before, spotting twice, abdomen pains, cravings and wanting more food than usual, and a change in my body that i noticed when i looked at myself, and most recently my areolas have darkened and sort of expand and my breast seem to have changed as well and gotten fuller but no pain, also the loss of appetite and i vomited once and feel nausea every once in a while when i smell or look at certain food, and the craziest one has been the way my belly is sort of popping out now. Basically Ive had many symptoms, it was positive to me that i was pregnant and not a single doubt passed through my mind. Fast forward to one week ago i decide to buy another pregnancy test pack of two just to get another confirmation to make it feel more real, but they both came out negative. This worried me so i called a pregnancy clinic and scheduled an appointment for one of those free urine pregnancy test, i entered knowing i was pregnant and just needing the result in my hands confirming the pregnancy. Sure enough, the test also came out negative and the lady who was talking to me and did/gave me the test to me told me i wasnt pregnant and that i wasnt able to get an ultrasound due to the test being negative. This caused major anxiety to me. 1/4 of my at home pregnancy test were positive leaving 3/4 of the test negative, and also the urine test from the clinic which resembled a at home pregnancy test was also negative.

At this point my last period occurred around September 25th, 2016 and since then the only type of bleeding thats happened was the light spotting i had barely even noticed. Nothing that comes to mind seems to add up what might be happening to me and im not sure how to deal with this. I havent been able to tell my father and my boyfriend hasnt been able to tell his mother because we arent sure how to explain it and also the entire clinic visit was to get a paper stating that the pregnancy is positive and to get ultrasound picture things to be able to show them and a sure them about the entire pregnancy of ours, keep in mind that we are high school student still. If anyone can help me or know what might be happening and whether i am or am not pregnan,t id greatly appreciate it.

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Hi, Anon.

Thanks for reaching out to us today.

You need to be examined by a doctor to see what else is going on. It's not normal for your period to just stop for 4 months.

Keep us updated.


January 28, 2017 - 7:04pm
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