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Plan B or Pregnant. Please help.

By September 12, 2017 - 10:32am
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This girl is stressing me out. So sometime last month, I had sex without penetration with this girl I was getting to know. Lots of bare skin grinding. Didn't ejaculate inside (it was sometime on the 12th or 13th August). So I didn't think too much of it cos I didn't penetrate. A few days later, I met her again and we had sex at maybe 5 or 6 am on the 16th of August. I pulled out as I didn't use a condom. I went to the bathroom to wash (don't remember if I peed) and had another round of sex. She then took 0.75mg levonorgestrel pills about 8 to 10 hours later. Those you had to take 1 pill and another 12 hours later. So she had her second pill 12 hours after the first pill. Its been weeks, she never told me she had any spotting but said she felt tired, peed often in the night even if she doesn't drink much water. She was supposed to have her period on the 9th of Sept but she says it might come on the 7th or 8th. So on the 9th this month she said she had some pinkish blood (just a little) and her breast hurts. On the 10th, nothing and then 11th she said she had her period like her normal period would be, and her breast was hurting. 12th and 13th nothing up to this point in time. I really need to know cos I try to talk to her about when her ovulation and last period was or if she thinks she is pregnant... and she just tells me if she gets pregnant it won't have anything to do with me if she has my child and she won't "bother my life". This girl is messing with my brain. Every single day since we had sex, she has threatened to "eat an abortion pill and kill the child" or "won't tell me at all if she is pregnant", or just "won't bother my life if she is pregnant". This is mentally fatiguing. My mind hasn't had peace since I had sex with her. Will update you people if there's any news.

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Hello Soveyworried

Thank you for writing.
The only advice is can give you is to use this situation as a learning tool in why never, ever to have sex without a condom, if you don't want to have a baby with whatever woman is involved. Good luck with everything.

September 12, 2017 - 12:37pm
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