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By Anonymous April 1, 2019 - 6:50pm
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Hi me and my bf were together at first we were making out then he took off my shirt and his it got to the point where he took my pants and underwear off but i told him to keep his underwear and sweatpants on he started giving me oral and eventually started fingering me deeply im a virgin this is the first time it happened to me before these acts he had peed and washed his hands with soap so I guess his hands were clean however they were sweaty from all the making out so i made him put hand sanitizer just in case and while he was giving oral and fingering he kept cleaning my vagina with paper towel after he got done he used his other hand to reach out his penis and clean it was far away from me he had his pant on the whole time while i was naked then we went to shower me and him i kept distancing myself my vagina from his penis i slipped twice in the shower i cleaned my body with soap including vagina i also used his towel which was cleanly washed to dry up my body then i put a pad on my underwear and got dressed again later we dry humped and made out again during this time he put his penis in my mouth for like 20 seconds then i held it and he got done in the garbage i put on hand sanitizer after im so worried he keeps telling me im over thinking but i dont know and also its my period just finished 2 days ago. please please help do i need plan b or anything

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HERWriter Guide

Hi Anon!

Thanks for your post! Did you have sex ed at school? If not, it's a good idea to study on your own so you know how sex and the human body works. You can read books on this or search our own site. This will eliminate a lot of stress than the unknown can cause.
A woman cannot get pregnant unless she has unprotected sex (naked) with ejaculation. She would also have to be ovulating or be within five days of ovulation. Sperm will not travel through a layer of clothing to impregnate. You can't get pregnant from oral sex or fingering and there is no indication there was any semem.

So a pregnancy cannot occur from what you did.


April 2, 2019 - 4:02am
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Anonymous (reply to SusanC)

Thank You but I took a shower with him and slipped 2 times he picked me up i tried my best to stay away from his penis so is there any risk from just showering together?

Thank you so much

April 2, 2019 - 5:07pm
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

There is still no risk.


April 3, 2019 - 4:43am
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