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By April 19, 2012 - 7:41pm
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good evening, i was searching something online and came across your comment that you were a sex ed teacher. ive got a question.
so me and my boyfriend never have sex, never have had sex. but we do plenty foreplay.
of course oral stuff but also sometimes we are completely naked and he slides his penis up and down across my vagina. this is even after oral we do this after he has cummed and cleaned himself (im not sure how well although)
im experiencing something strange, a dark brown discharge.

i dont think its my period, its very different. color, consistency, amount, even doesnt smell like blood.
so i did a little reasearch. i found out theres something called implantation bleeding that has to do with a fertilized egg. this scared me. i read more. i read that usually it happens after 5 weeks of your last period. well, its five weeks after my last period. im hoping to the lord this is just a coincidence.
but im wondering about your input on this? can a girl LIKELY get pregnant from foreplay such as this after oral orgasms and such? or if i swallowed the cum, kissed him, and it was transferred when he gave me oral? is that possible?
im really afraid...it would ruin my whole life to become pregnant. this dischrge is pretty serious. really dark brown.

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Hi Janegreene, 

Thanks for posting. Dark brown spotting or bleeding is not necessarily implantation bleeding. Dark blood means that the blood is old, so sometimes it can get pooled and be released at some point-- it could happen any time during your cycle such as after sex when it can become dislodged. If you are concerned about pregnancy, do not have your boyfriend put his penis on your vagina-- it just isn't worth the risk. 

If your period is late, you may test for pregnancy for your peace of mind.

Here are some more resources that you may find helpful: https://www.empowher.com/pregnancy/content/am-i-pregnant-myths-and-facts-about-sex





Good luck,


April 20, 2012 - 7:56am
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

the thing is, this has never happened before, and im not even on my cycle yet niether did i just get off of it. so i know its not old blood...

April 20, 2012 - 8:05am
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