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Should I talk to my parents about my sexual relationship with my boyfriend?

By November 27, 2016 - 11:10am
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So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than 9 months and the past 3-4 months we have been fooling around. All we do is: he fingers me, and I give him a hand/or b job, or we dry hump with clothing on. However, within the last week have done something 4-5 times. I am scared of pregnancy because he came on my hand, I wiped it off, went home and without thinking touched myself with the same hand. I also thought you could be pregnant from swallowing sperm (though, now I know you can't.. I'm still worried about the dry sperm touching my vagina) Anyways, then I read online that you can be pregnant even if you get your period. So now, I'm completely stressed and think that it's time to talk to my gaurdian about this because I'm hiding too much. I'm 17, and he is 18.. I'm just scared of them taking me away from him. I think I should tell them about this though. How should I go about this?

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Dear sheeperlink,

Thank for contacting EmpowHer.

The decision to speak to your guardian(s) is one I cannot make for you. I don't your guardian(s) or the kind of relationship you have with them. They may ask you to stop seeing your boyfriend or put limitations on where or when you see him.

Unless you and your boyfriend had sexual intercourse (- he entered you and ejaculated inside you) you should not worry about being pregnant.

My advice is to use protection if you do engage in intercourse in the future. I hope you will check out the resources below for more information.




November 27, 2016 - 12:56pm
(reply to Helena)

Also! This happened about 2- 2 & 1/2 weeks ago.. i had this milky white discharge and my breasts are tender today. I'm scared. Really scared.

November 27, 2016 - 7:49pm
(reply to Helena)

What happened was; I'm on birth control (the pill) I was on and off a few months before but took the pill consistently the last month but missed the last four dark green pills.. and started the new pack, have taken them for perfectly. Anyways, he fingered me. I pulled my panties up and then game him a handjob. He came on my hand, I wiped it off on a pair of shorts. My hand was dried completely but then I fingered myself.. Anyways, I told my grandmother and she said we will wait to see what happens but thinks it's super unlikely. And she THINKS I'm okay..

November 27, 2016 - 5:40pm
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