I am female Post Menopausal and have been sex abstinence for several years. I have now met a new partner and we had intercourse, we used lubricant and condom. It was a bit painful but not too bad. Two days late I had UTI symptoms (urge to urinate, pink urine, shivering) for few hours but all disappeared few hours later. The urine test showed no bacteria. I am 63 and never had UTI so I am almost sure it is due to being sexually active after abstinence for long. I wonder what to do to avoid this problem in future. How soon can I resume sexual activity. What to do to make the sexual experience less painful.
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Hello paris
Thank you for writing.
If there was no bacteria at all, the effect of penetration and motion alone may have caused your symptoms.
For future reference, intercourse can cause UTI's and other urinary concerns by pushing bacteria into the urethra and causing an infection. If this becomes a common occurrence for you, it's possible to take a low dose antibiotic - one pill only - after sex. This medication is called Bactrim or Macrobid and can go by several other names. This is a very effective way of avoiding infections, if you find that your last experience which was not caused by bacteria, changes.
For lubrication, you can use a personal lubricant every time you have sex. This again, is effective in removing pain during intercourse. Since you have only gotten on the wagon (so to speak) some form of anxiety or nervousness may be at play, in causing your body to tense and then feel sore after. Once you're more active and get used to having sex, this discomfort may stop. It may not even be your age (post menopausal women have far lower estrogen as you know, and this can cause vaginal dryness) - any woman resuming sexual activity after a long absence can also feel a lot of discomfort at the beginning.
We can't say when you can resume sexual activity - you need to ask your doctor about this or wait until all your symptoms have gone.
October 12, 2017 - 2:22pmBest,
Susan
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