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why does my boyfriend not want to have sex with me and when we do it only last for 5 minutes ?

By Anonymous June 19, 2011 - 6:02pm
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My boyfriend is on perminante nights and on a weekend we see eachother but we never have sex it is really up setting me as I have got a high sex drive . But when we do manage to have sex it only lasts up to 5 minutes could my partner have lost interest in me. As it does not feel the same as when we first meet it feels like we are growing apart.

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Your partner is still probably in love with you, but he probably has a lower sex drive than you do. I know it's hard, because I am going through the same thing. It's tough when you want it and he doesn't. I hope you talk it out with him, but don't stress him too hard. Stress causes his lower sex drive to worsen in my opinion. You are in fact a beautiful woman at heart who cares a lot about your relationship and you are in no way unattractive simply because he doesn't take interest in you. Cheer up and good luck!

June 26, 2011 - 10:28am

Your duplicate question has been answered here: https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/why-does-my-boyfriend-not-want-have-sex-me-anymore.

June 19, 2011 - 8:10pm
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