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Why doesn't my Boyfriend like to kiss or have sex with me anymore?..

By Anonymous October 28, 2016 - 1:00pm
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Me and my Boyfriend are going on to 3 years of our relationship. In the beginning we were attracted to each other, but now he doesn't like kissing me or even have sex with me. Where now we don't even do ethier of them, on the daily or even the weekly.
Where also now when I try to spark a move to kiss him, he turns his head instantly or when I try to make a move to wanting to have sex, he always tells me no.
But when he's turned on he makes the instant move and we do have sex, but even during sex we barley even kiss. But when I'm ever, ever, turned on and try to make a move he rejects it everytime, but when he makes a move and I say no, he gets pissed off and just gives me a real bad gut clinching feeling that I did something wrong.

I hate this.. I am a passionate person that loves kisses and to have sex. But being turned down ALL THE TIME is making me worry and I don't like how he treats me about this.
The rest of our relationship is good. But its just this that I have a problem with. Like sometimes it drives me crazy on how bad he gives me messed up signals where I don't know how to turn him on anymore if I want to have sex or even the simplest kiss. I'm hurting on the inside where this is crushing my heart.
What do I do? Please help me...

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