My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 years. We were each others' first sexual partner, though not only due to slip ups in college 1000 miles apart (Mistakes happen. Shouldn't, but do). My problem is that my orgasms are for all intents and purposes, twitches. Clitoral or vaginal, my orgasms have a great buildup, but when it comes to the main show, they fall short. They don't last long, and I can get up and run a mile afterward if I wanted to. No fireworks, shaking, or writhing with passion here.
I'm perfectly healthy, but this is very frustrating. Sex is a regular occurrence, and we've tried innumerable positions, toys and approaches, but to no avail. Am I destined for boring orgasms forever? I am not a frequent masturbater, but when the mood strikes, I can be in and out in one minute, cleaned up and out the door. What's a poor girl to do? I just want fireworks!!
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