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Im 21, my boyfriend is 22 soon to be 23. We haven't been intimate in about 5months. I love him but he rather get oral and a hand job from me then actually be intimate. I have found myself pleasuring myself and fantisizing about. cheating. I don't know what to do anymorw. I feel like less odf a woman because of this
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Hi Anon,
Congratulations! Keep us posted.
Best,
Daisy
February 20, 2012 - 5:59amThis Comment
Hi Anon,
Welcome to EmpowHER. Am sure is not easy, but it might be good to talk to your boyfriend and ask him why wouldn't he have sex with you anymore. Open communication is very important especially if you are planning on getting married. Let him know how you feel.
Here's are some links that might be helpful
https://www.empowher.com/sex-amp-relationships/content/best-responses-men-why-wont-he-have-sex-me
https://www.empowher.com/sex-amp-relationships/content/your-male-partner-withholding-physical-affection-or-sex-helpful-advice
https://www.empowher.com/relationships-family/sex-relationships
Best,
Daisy
February 13, 2012 - 4:47amThis Comment
Well thank you,
February 18, 2012 - 4:57amYour advice was very helpful. So much so, that we are pregnant :). That was unexpected but is a blessing.
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