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3 Steps to Avoiding Caregiver Burnout During the Holidays

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Being a caregiver for a loved one is often a selfless, thankless job. It can require extreme amounts of patience, determination and grace that many people do not have all of the time. During the holiday season, this difficult job can become even more arduous than usual.

An increase in unhealthy behavior like indulging in alcohol and a poor diet, or not getting enough sleep or exercise, can lower our defenses and magnify all of our experiences. Both the good ones and the bad ones can seem too big for us to control.

To avoid letting the holidays make the caregiving experience so hard that it burns you out, here are the steps that may help you get through this wonderful, yet emotionally and physically draining, period.

1) Know the signs of burnout

Caregivers may experience burnout at any time of the year, but the holidays can be particularly draining. If the caregiver is starting to feel apathetic, fatigued, has foggy thinking, or is dealing with emotional highs and lows, that person may be experiencing burnout. It is important to know the signs of being burned out so you can head it off at the pass before it takes over your psyche.

2) Practice self-care

"Do something for myself" is something that many caregivers do not put on their to-do lists. You can’t be the best person for your loved one if you aren’t allowing yourself to be the best person for you first.

You don't have to take two weeks on a Caribbean island to practice self-care. Keep it simple, and try to incorporate self-care into your regular schedule.

Exercise is one of those things caregivers tend to give up first. Don't!! It can help you physically and emotionally. Meditating, getting outside in the sun, and even giving yourself the gift of aromatherapy, can all help to reduce stress and re-balance your life.

3) Ask for help

It is not a crime for caregivers to need care for themselves. Ask for help with your caregiver duties. Ask for help with the other daily stresses in your life. Ask for help with your holiday preparations, or any other personal needs you have.

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While I know that this article is meaning well, I don't know many, if any, caregivers who can actually bring themselves to follow the advice being given. Especially during the holidays, it becomes even harder to ask for help, because your person receiving care needs you even more emotionally. And, I myself feel like I don't want to disrupt other people's holiday plans, by askng for extra time from them. It's not that I don't think they can help, but it can oftentimes feel selfish to me.

November 6, 2015 - 1:19pm
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