Hello everyone. I'm kinda worried if my girlfriend is pregnant or not. We're not ready for the responsibility of having a child at the moment. And we kinda made something stupid.It was an accident, because I forgot.I've read a lot of things about it already, but I can't find the exact answer I'm looking for.I hope you wouldn't criticize me though, as I'm already under a lot of pressure.I didn't want to hear a 'maybe' I just wanted a straight 'yes' or 'no'But anyways, it's something like this: Me and my girlfriend played with each other's lower parts. She touched my penis and I touched and rubbed her clit. after a while, she made me ejaculate. I had a little splash of semen on my finger and palm, but I wiped it away with a towel. I stopped two or three minutes, just enough to get my hand completely dry, and then I went back to touching her clitoris with the same hand. She was wet, very very wet, and I went into a smearing motion outside her vagina, spreading the wetness she had on the dry sides. I didn't finger her on the inside though, I don't put my finger in, as she is still a virgin, and she doesn't want her hymen to break. I only touch her on the outside. So, I was wondering, what are the chances of her getting pregnant? I'm worried at the thought and I can't sleep because of it.Please help me ease the worry, and thank you.
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My boyfriend and I were playing with each others lower body parts and I’m scared that he might have had dried precum on his fingers. He only rubbed my clit and I had a low chance of pregnancy, but I still worry to the point where I can’t even sleep. Is pregnancy possible because of this?
July 7, 2019 - 2:59pmThis Comment
Hi Anon,
It's a good idea to know how sex and the human body works. This will eliminate a lot of stress that the unknown can cause.
A woman cannot get pregnant unless she has unprotected sex (intercourse) with ejaculation that enters the vagina. The highest chance for this is during ovulation.
Dried or not, pre-ejaculate fluid in itself does not contain sperm. Sperm can be picked up the urethra if a man has not urinated since ejaculation. But once he urinates, any sperm would be flushed out. Pregnancy is very uncommon from pre-ejaculate, the urethra would have to contain sperm at the same time. A woman would also have to be ovulating and engage in unprotected intercourse.
best,
Helena
July 7, 2019 - 7:08pmThis Comment
hey my boyfriend had precum on his hand. he wiped it off and fingered me. can I get pregnant? I might be ovulating now. please help
January 24, 2020 - 6:20amThis Comment
Anon,
It's probably unlikely as there is no active sperm in pre-ejaculate. Sperm may be inside the urethra if a man ejaculated recently and did not urinate since.
Helena
January 24, 2020 - 2:52pmThis Comment
Every time during ovulation I suffer from severe breast pain. It's only this time I don't have pain.. can it be sign of pregnancy?? Also I have been on medication for illness for almost 6 days can this be the reason of change
September 19, 2018 - 9:34pmThis Comment
Hello Anon
Is this every time you ovulate? Then it doesn't mean you could be pregnant as you are getting your period after. Some women do feel discomfort during ovulation and certainly in the week before a period is due. Breast pain can be quite severe.
Medication can change the menstrual cycle.
Best,
September 20, 2018 - 3:25pmSusan
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Yes it is in every month since ovulation I have been suffering from breast pain Unlike this month.. I am due on 26 th still there is no sign of breast pain. On searching I found that having no breath pain during ovulation can be because of pregnancy ( if pain is regular)
September 21, 2018 - 7:14amThis Comment
I'm not sure about that information you're reading. You are not pregnant at the time of ovulation - if you have sex and become pregnant, it's about five days later, not during ovulation.
There could be many reasons why you're not feeling the usual discomfort (including caffeine use or lack of). Don't look too deeply in this, you'll come up with all sorts of ideas. See what the next few days bring.
September 24, 2018 - 4:22amSusan
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3 weeks ago me and my boyfriend were playing around and he ejaculated on my hand, shirt and sheets then he wiped the semen of the penis with a towel like 20 minutes later he put his penis inside of me can there be a possibility of pregnancy?
August 7, 2018 - 3:09pmThis Comment
Hello!
August 7, 2018 - 3:23pmYou didn't engage in safe sex but we can't say if you could be pregnant - there may be some risk if he didn't urinate after ejaculation.
A pregnancy test would be accurate by now - I suggest you take one.
Best,
Susan
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