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can she get pregnant if I touched her vagina with dried sperm?

By August 29, 2015 - 9:14pm
 
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Hello everyone. I'm kinda worried if my girlfriend is pregnant or not. We're not ready for the responsibility of having a child at the moment. And we kinda made something stupid.It was an accident, because I forgot.I've read a lot of things about it already, but I can't find the exact answer I'm looking for.I hope you wouldn't criticize me though, as I'm already under a lot of pressure.I didn't want to hear a 'maybe' I just wanted a straight 'yes' or 'no'But anyways, it's something like this: Me and my girlfriend played with each other's lower parts. She touched my penis and I touched and rubbed her clit. after a while, she made me ejaculate. I had a little splash of semen on my finger and palm, but I wiped it away with a towel. I stopped two or three minutes, just enough to get my hand completely dry, and then I went back to touching her clitoris with the same hand. She was wet, very very wet, and I went into a smearing motion outside her vagina, spreading the wetness she had on the dry sides. I didn't finger her on the inside though, I don't put my finger in, as she is still a virgin, and she doesn't want her hymen to break. I only touch her on the outside. So, I was wondering, what are the chances of her getting pregnant? I'm worried at the thought and I can't sleep because of it.Please help me ease the worry, and thank you.

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hello i'm the anon from before but i need to clear things up and be more specific bc things are out of hand now. a bit more than week after my last period, my boyfriend and i were dry humping. he had on boxers and jeans, i had thick leggings and panties. he ejaculated and then felt my vaginal area with his fingers over the top of my clothing (make it clear i was very aroused, so i was wetting through). he even fingered me a little through the clothing pushing the fabric up my vagina a bit. a couple days later i felt cramping and developed a cold (even tho i had just gotten over one), then a week later and a week before my period, o experienced what looked exactly as what implantation bleeding looks like and when it's supposed to happen. now, i'm constipated, cramping and my period is late. i'm 16, a virgin, i've never even taken my clothes off around a guy, i just need to be assured i can't be pregnant but now i've just accepted i could and have become deeply depressed and suicidal. please help!

February 19, 2017 - 9:08pm
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anon

I'm not sure how more we can reassure you that you cannot get pregnant this way. You simply can't. Think about the science involved and try to take your emotions out of it.

If you are serious about suicide you need to reach out to someone immediately.

Susan

February 20, 2017 - 8:27am
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Anonymous (reply to Susan Cody)

i am thinking about the science! i was ovulating that day and i read places that sperm can get through clothing if it's saturated enough with vaginal fluid, which my leggings and panties were. then they went up my vagina, and found an egg bc i was ovulating, and now i'm pregnant. even my areoloas are changing. i must be pregnant!

February 21, 2017 - 8:23am
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon

Take a pregnancy test to confirm you are pregnant.

Best,
Susan

February 22, 2017 - 7:09am
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Anonymous

hello about two weeks ago,my boyfriend and i were fooling around and i ended up giving him a handjob.
he ejaculated and a bit went on my finger,i wiped it of a little but i don't think fully.
an hour later he left and i put my finger on my vagina and inserted a tiny bit.
now i'm paranoid i'm pregnant!
i'm peeing more frequently,i'm getting some spots,i don't know when my period was meant to come so i'm really stuck,i'm a bit chubby usually so it's hard to notice anything,i'm young too so i'm scared to tell anyone,i need your help really badly.

February 18, 2017 - 7:41am
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Anonymous

Hi me and my boy were having sex, and he ejaculated on me. No where near my vagaina. I am on birth control right now but I just changed the dosage of it and I had to go off for a month and I just started back up and it's been like 2 and 1/2 weeks on it so I'm not sure if it's kicked in yet. When he was wiping it off me with a paper towel I was feeling around my body for anywhere wet and I felt somewhere with my 2 fingers and rubbed my fingers together to like dry it off but I don't remember if it was dry and then maybe like 10 seconds later I wasn't thinking and I putting my finger to my vagina hole just to feel if I was wet or moist to use the other paper towel to dry anything and I was pretty wet. But right after I realized I had touched his semen and I put that finger in me I freaked out. His semen that I touched wasn't like dropping wet it was just like almost dry liquid but now I'm scared. Can I be pregnant?

February 13, 2017 - 12:01pm
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

If you have been taking your birth control pills every day for the last 2 1/2 weeks, you were protected and not a risk for becoming pregnant with this activity.

Continue to take a daily pill at the same time each day.
Maryann

February 14, 2017 - 8:11am
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Anonymous

hey, my boyfriend and i were fooling around and he ejaculated (he had boxers and jeans, i had leggings and panties). after he ejaculated he fingered me kinda through my leggings, and they were very wet. is there a chance his ejaculate was on my leggings and when he fingered me through them, the ejaculate covered fabric went up my vagina got me pregnant? my period isn't until the end of the month and i'm really really nervous about this. i have an anxiety disorder which tends to make things worse, but i had abnormal bleeding already this month and am even more nervous now. help!

February 10, 2017 - 2:30am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

No. There was no way any sperm in the ejaculated semen could have gotten through the leggings and underwear.

Try your best to relax because stressing about this will only cause a further delay.

Have you ever had an exam with a gynecologist? The abnormal bleeding may be a reason to schedule one.

Regards,
Maryann

February 10, 2017 - 12:40pm
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

i never have seen a gyno, although i'm beginning to think i should. my periods are always irregular and i'm always having a new problem every month. thank you for the speedy reply, you and he appointment with my therapist today have really cleared me head! i'm going to try to relax.

just to be sure: you're positive his ejaculate couldn't have gone through his jeans and on to my leggings, and then when he subsequently fingered me, push the sperm up my vagina? thank you in advance, i expect my period in a week or so, i will keep you posted so i can hopefully help others!

February 10, 2017 - 1:41pm
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