ask: can you get pregnant without the man coming inside and rubbing on your clit even though he hasn't ejaculated and his penis is dry
i'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?
PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(
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Yes, you can get pregnant this way, but it is fairly unlikely without penis-to-vagina penetration (intercourse) if there really was zero contact with your vagina. However, a man's penis does have something called "pre-ejaculate fluid" which may contain sperm, when his penis becomes hard, and keeping a penis away from a vagina (even accidentally) would be difficult to maneuver when stimulating other parts of the vulva and clitoris.
Rubbing genital-to-genital is considered a "risky sexual behavior", because there is a slight chance of pregnancy (if his penis only touched your clitoris and not your vagina; there is still the "pre-ejaculatory fluid" on his penis, even if it looked dry). The risk of pregnancy is increased if his penis touched your clitoris and your vagina. There is a high risk of spreading sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and sexually transmitted infections (STIs) through genital-to-genital contact.
If you are "very young", have you been able to talk with a trusted relative to go to the Gynecologist to get on birth control and/or to have your first annual checkup? This is recommended for women who are sexually active---which you are. (Sexually active does not mean intercourse, but means engaging in behaviors that are "sexual").
Do you and your boyfriend have access to condoms? This would take most of the concern out of the equation for you, as you would still be able to engage in the genital-to-genital contact without fear of pregnancy (remember condoms are not 100% effective, and only cover part of the genitals). A Gynecologist can also talk with you about condoms and safer sex practices.
July 21, 2009 - 2:24pmThis Comment
umm i have a question can you get pregnant if the guy didnt go all the way?? And if the sheets got wet what does that mean
August 6, 2010 - 10:42pmand when you get your period can you still get pregnant
August 10, 2010 - 8:39pmYes and periods can not always mean you are not pregnant, I had 3 full periods before I found out i was three months pregnant with twins,.....
December 11, 2011 - 5:13pmwhen you were pregnant with twins, after having your 3 full periods were you showing? Like were there any signs of you being pregnant? I'd like to know..
December 25, 2011 - 7:56pmwere there any signs of being pregnant not just like showing, but like the hunger and other signs? I'd like to know.
So I have a question, me and a very close guy friend was messing around and he didn't go in though. He didn't cum, but it felt wet down there. I have been having pregnancy symptoms, but me and my friend have a very similar cycle. Could I be pregnant?
April 16, 2012 - 3:12pmI have a question too. I missed about two or three days of my birth control (I even started to have my period) but then started it again. Two days after that, my boyfriend accidentally came outside my vagina before he put the condom on. I have two active pills left, but could I still get pregnant?
Please help me, I'm starting to get scared.
August 20, 2010 - 5:23pmi am 18 and have not had sex before and i just had it today and the guy i was with did not have portection please help me am i pregnant i am scared
November 19, 2010 - 3:17pmHi Anonymous,
November 22, 2010 - 7:51amThank you for being here. I know you must be scared. You may want to get in to see a doctor now that you are sexually active--you can ask them about birth control and getting tested for any possible STD/STIs. If it hasn't been 72 hours since you had intercourse, you can take emergency contraception. Here is an article about how emergency contraception works:
For more information, please review these articles: Emergency Contraception Update, 2010
Anytime you have sex and don't use a condom, spermicide, birth control pills, withdrawal, or any other method of birth control, you increase your risk for getting pregnant. The surest sign of not being pregnant is getting your period. It generally takes 10-14 days following a intercourse event to know if you are pregnant or not. If you miss your period, you can take a home pregnancy test, or request a test from your doctor. Here is an article about that so you can educate yourself and be prepared next time:
For more information, please review these articles: Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?
Try and relax, excessive stress can do a number on your health and your menstrual cycle. Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
You Cant Know If Your Pregnant The Day You Have It .
June 17, 2011 - 6:57pmWait Atleast A Week&&Buy A Pregnancy Test But Make Sure You Take Your Test First Think In The Morning So All Your Hormones Are Correct , It Is Possible A Pregnancy Test Can Be Wrong So Make Sure you Take Atleast 3 .
Best Wishes Thoughh .