I've been dating this fellow for a couple months now. We started having sex a few weeks ago, which is... quite nice. I'm 20, he's 25. He's had more sexual partners than I've got digits, while I can count all of mine on less than a hand (this worried me a little at first; I felt a little... insufficient and afraid that my inexperience would be a bit of a hindrance. Still a mite worried that this might be the case.).
Problemo, though, is that, while the sex is awesome... he's a master of stamina. A bit too much of one. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing on the surface... but I enjoy sex more when my partner manages to finish too. I've managed to help him out orally after I'm done with two or three interesting endings of my own, but... y'know, having a guy finish after normal sex is quite satisfying for both parties. He hasn't been able to orgasm from just plain sex alone quite yet.
He said hadn't had this problem since he was around 15 with his first girl. A friend told me that he had casually commented that I'm the first girl in about ten years who he's actually dated for more than two weeks (which worried me mildly when I first heard it; but after some thought I realized the relationship is going very well and I have no reason to worry, we get along quite swimmingly :3).
I was afraid it might've been because I can often get a little bit too slippery. He's complimented me many times on my kegels, so I'm not "loose", by any means. He'll often say that he'll "get to the point, then it kind of just fades off into the distance".
summary: my fellow can't get off from anything except oral
What can I do to help him? Or comfort him? Or should I do anything at all, this is something that he's gotta do?
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