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His he using me or ?

By Anonymous October 14, 2012 - 8:41am
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I've liked this guy that's 20 and I'm 17 for about a year now. I've told him once he asked me why and stuff. We only talk like once or twice a month. On Facebook like just a bit. He's an Aries guy and Aries guys are all over , like he will ask me to do something for him in a sexual way but he will ask others too. Me and him made a deal that he will only come to me for sexual things and no one else. This doesn't include sexual inter course. He has came to my house twice in 2 months and I've performed oral sex on him and whatever he wanted. He always says that look I'm at least coming to you and not going to anyone else. But I am confused since we are doing sexual stuff, we aren't girlfriend boyfriend, he doesn't like me the way I like him. I don't know what to do if I should talk to him about it or not. I'm basically his slave and would do anything he says. Please help I don't want to lose him!

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Hi Anon,

Welcome to EmpowHER. You are very young.  You are a minor, to be with this guy.  You should not be with anyone that you have to do sexual favors for.  Especially if he is doing it with other people as well.  He is just taking advantage of you and using you.  You are at risk of getting a serious sexual transmitted disease.  There are many STD's that can be passed on through oral sex as well.  Anon, you should really take more pride on yourself and find yourself someone of your age and with more morals.  Not a guy, that only cares about himself and only uses you.  

Best of luck


October 15, 2012 - 7:01am
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