I'm 21 and my bf is also of the same age. we are in a relationship for 3 years now. he's amazing, he loves me so very much, he takes care of me. I too find him very attractive and i love him very much. he's like the guy i wanna marry and maybe i ll marry him too! i love him that much!
But the problem is he is not satisfying me in bed! The foreplay is good, he even goes down and he is very sweet. But when we start the real thing, he cant last long. He comes too soon. i have a huge sex drive and i'm really not satisfied. he can't last for even 3 mins! This upsets him very much and hence he never initiates sex. He gets so upset that he wouldn't even talk to me after that.
Because of this he wants to leave me. He wants to break up, he tells me that i deserve a better person who's better in bed and who can fulfill my desires. but i don't wanna leave him. as i said i'm so much in love with him and even considering the idea of marrying him. But he constantly says he wanna break up with me and this causes a lot of fights b/w us lately.
What should i do? please please help me! should we go see a doctor? This would definitely hurt him though and he ll break up with me for serious. Am really confused. Please help me out!
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