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ask: No period (missed), could it be a no show besides pregnancy?

By Anonymous

I did not have sex, nor was his ejaculation near my opening or on my pants nor underwear. I dont know if i could have gone pregnant from fingering, he never had ejaculated on his hand then fingered me. So all that could have been is pre-cum, but he doubts he could have touched it and i doubt as well for we never had our pants off while fingering me, but he did touch me inside.

I think i might have been depressed lately. I am often bothered by my period a no show. PMS symptoms had been on and off, i think i feel sad also when i suddenly think of the thought that i had missed my period. I had a late period then, (it was more than a week) but it came, and so did the other. *although its ranging from 31-41 days. so i think i am irregular, based from my observations since september 2011*

i had been stressed also, due to schoolworks, this no show period, anxiety, worrying too much, emotional stuffs (sometimes i have this crying or really bad depression because i am so worried why i missed a period), lost interest in stuffs, and somehow, i really lost the will to be happy and all, and personal things (i was really sad because someone really close to me left to work abroad, and this is somewhat really new to us.)

also, i had a bad case of cold (upto now. since feb. now, i had think i have nasal congestion, i cant hear quite properly, due to this colds)

I am really stressed. Can i had missed this period because of fingering? I doubt it tho, but, can it be? I am sorry, its just hard to get PT here.

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Anonymous

hi im also thinking about the risk of getting pregnant thru our actions. we're kinda thesame. cn sprem pass thru pants and get me prgenant? he was fingering me, he didnot came. but i was worried about the damp part of his pants. if ever he somehow unconsciously touched this damp part from the pre-cum only, can i get pregnnt if he touched me? can sprm permeate the briefs and then pants? help plz

March 11, 2012 - 10:16pm
Rosa Cabrera RN

Hi Anonymous,

Take a deep breath--- you cannot get pregnant through fingering. Stress plays a huge role in when your period comes and it is often late or missed due to our daily worries with school, work, personal life, etc. If you are still a teenager, sometimes it can take a few years for your period to become regular, this does not mean that there is anything wrong with you and it is actually very common. 

Please wait for your period to come, if you miss more than 3 in a row then please schedule an appointment with your doctor. 

http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/menstrual_problems.html?tracking=T_RelatedArticle

Best Wishes,

Rosa

March 8, 2012 - 7:53am
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

miss rosa, im sorry if my reply is too long, i just wanted to state every thing i am feeling / experiencing to know what really went wrong. and to have an accurate answer from my question regarding what could have affected my period.

March 8, 2012 - 8:30am
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

If ever i miss it 3 times in a row, my appointment with the doctor, is it because of the irregularity of my period? or is it because of the pregnancy possibility? Somehow if ever i am, its gonna be one hard explanation to do since i had never had sexual intercourse (we really wanted to save this for marriage, and also to prevent pregnancy too. Its just we wanted to explore each other and also, to feed the desire by doing this touching thing and abstaining to have intercourse) nor did he ejaculate on his hand and deliberately rubbed it.

we're doing everything to be clean, he uses alcohol, cleans his hand with soap and water if ever he finishes in the comfort room and never ejaculates near me. We've been cautious for the past 7 months of doing this. it just bothers me why i missed my period. i mean, ive been having the pms signs since feb --- the tender and somewhat heavy breasts (i always feel this before my period), somehow my lower abdomen hurts, but its really on - off, never felt nausea nor food cravings, but i feel so down in the blues and really emotionally unstable (often), and also, i find it hard to sleep at night, i think it is because i worry too much and i feel so stressed.

and yes, i am a teenager, still studying. (im taking up a course that is reaallllyyyy stressful, and i often sleep only 3-4 hours a day, from mon-sat. i never had a good rest this past few months.

March 8, 2012 - 8:28am
Rosa Cabrera RN (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon,

The appointment with your doctor would be due to the irregularity. 

You cannot get pregnant through touching,

Rosa

March 13, 2012 - 6:35am
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