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ask: please help me! dont want to be pregnant

By radhika
 
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I didnot have sex.He was just rubbing
his penis ,with both of us wearing
clothes(me - jeans)
He inserted his hands inside his pants
and then touched me dont know
where he touched first. He did this
twice or thrice.Also he didnot
ejaculate!
I know i cant get pregnant but still
1) could i be?
I had two periods after that and got 5
negative tests ( 3 hpts + 2 blood tests)
But on the day we met i got nausea

for 2 weeks and crampings After
sometime i got legcramping and
swelling. I also have grown my belly
and it seems like i am never
full,always hungry. :(
and i guess my legs have swollen too!
2) i had my last period (before
meeting him) on 23rd july and my
periods are irregular. And met him on
2nd sept. how much months
pregnant would it make me if i were?
Also during these recent two periods i
experienced breast soreness before
them,which never happened.
I m 16 so cant go to a gynaec. Plz help
I used to have a flat belly but now it
has grown much more. If i were pregnant i would be 15 weeks !

Also i hear sound of water from my belly sometimes!

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Susan Cody HERWriter Guide

Hi radhika

I already helped you on this issue recently - click here: http://www.empowher.com/community/ask/help-pregnancy-all-over-my-mind-ca...

You have an obsession that you are pregnant and you are not - you get your periods and you don't have sex.

All we can do is tell you that you DO need to see a doctor about your anxiety. You keep saying that you know you cannot be pregnant but you are showing a deep anxiety that you are, even showing symptoms like a larger belly and swollen legs. If there is any chance that you could have had sex and are not saying it, you have to see a doctor but since all your pregnancy tests are negative and you say you never had sex or took your clothes off, then you can't be and this is an anxiety issue for you, not an issue of pregnancy.

There seems to be no way to convince you otherwise and I do think you need some professional guidance in this area so this panic will stop - it's not a healthy way to live. Go to a clinic like Planned Parenthood, they can help you there.

Best,

Susan

December 12, 2012 - 1:10pm
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