ask: what happens if u dont have sex in over 5 yrs do u become a virgin again?

 
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will it hurt just the same as if it is your first time?

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Anonymous

I am a 30 years old girl and I have has sex when I was 28 but because of pain we couldn't complete
he tried but I was in pain a lot. after that I never had sex.
what would happens now of i do have sex now. I would appreciate the help.
Please help by comments

May 13, 2015 - 12:57pm
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Anonymous

I haven't had sex since 2002 after my divorce, does my vagina because tight again?

April 3, 2015 - 8:51pm
dianne615@sbcglobal.net

I had a bad relationship and when it was over I gave up my sex life. That was over10yrs., ago. Since I've meet a wonderful man and I want to resume my sex life but when he played with me with his finger the next day I was very sore and bleeding. We did get a little intense but now I'm scared to do anything else. Will it get better is my question?

June 16, 2014 - 12:50pm
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Anonymous

I've been married 47 years and only had sex once, I don't feel different physically . But it has hurt me mentally and personally. I did have a hysterectomy a few years ago and that destroyed my desire for any sex. How I survived all those years I'll never know. I do see a shrink once every two weeks and take anti-depresant meds.

May 20, 2014 - 1:58pm
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Anonymous

am a 22yrs old male who hasnt had sex for the past 17yrs.can this have any negative effect on me?

November 7, 2013 - 4:16pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

You had sex when you were 5?

April 17, 2015 - 9:13am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

he probably meant he havent done sex since he was 17

June 7, 2015 - 8:43am
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Anonymous

I have been with the love of my life for a couple of months and last night we tryed to have sex but he couldnt get hard.... I know he hasnt been with a woman in over 7 years physically or relationship wise...could this be the cause of him not being about to get an erection while seeing me naked or attempting foreplay??

February 8, 2013 - 12:27pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

i was with a man for 9 years with no sex and now with a new man want to have sex but i just don't feel it any more how can i get this back

August 30, 2013 - 9:48pm
ShellLady

If you haven't had sex for 30 years, I'm happy to say that it makes you ..... in charge of your body! Your body, your choice. I didn't have sex for one year after my husband died (after cheating me out of all my money) and now I can have sex whenever I want. The bad news is that you have to be very careful of who you choose - partners don't come with health cards. I had sex with a couple of men and now have settled down with just one of them. We have sex between 3 times a day to 3 times a week. It's our bodies, our choice. Just enjoy life and be safe whether you have sex or not!

June 22, 2011 - 2:11pm
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