I have been married for two months now and was a virgin up until my marriage. I have a high sex drive and so does my husband, and we have sex whenever we can. But strangely I cannot orgasm. I have read much on the topic and know "how" to have one, but can't figure out the problem. I have had a few vaginal problems as I had a IUD put in a several weeks before we got married. This has caused cramping and spotting, but has gotten better lately.
I also had a yeast infection a few days before the wedding and then it came back on my honeymoon! it lasted almost a week then and was very frustrating; we didn't have sex then as it was very painful. I had never had a yeast infection, but I believe the reason for it was that I had been very sick about a month and half before and been on several antibiotics.
Anyway, I also experience some slight pain during sex, usually just during insertion. After a few minutes it goes away. I don't always have the pain tho.
Sex can be unenjoyable as well at times. Even tho I have a very high sex drive, we'll have sex and then I don't enjoy it. Sometimes I'm too sensitive and other times I'm not feeling much of anything! Then the few times I enjoy it, usually he comes too soon! and I don't get much clitoral stimulation during insertion, even tho we've tried several positions ...
Is this because I became sexually active only recently? I'm only 21 and having an orgasm would greatly help relieve the sexual tension. Please help me - I don't know who to ask!
Thanks so much!
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