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By June 2, 2017 - 6:34am
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Dear empowher! I need help! I heard this is one of the most reliable sites when it comes to things like this. I don't know if my girlfriend and I are just paranoid or what. Two weeks ago, we were dry humping. We are only wearing our underwear. I ejaculated while humping her and I made her panty wet due to my ejaculation, (first question) Is it possible for the sperm to go through clothes. Then last week, we were doing oral sex but no penetration in the vagina, I am worried that when she kissed me then I kissed her vagina, (Second question) is there a possibility that my sperm was transferred from her mouth to my mouth to her vagina? Then the other day, we were humping without any clothes on. I swear I urinated before we do it and I did not ejaculate that time. (Third question) Can preum cause pregnancy even I did not ejaculate while dry humping naked? I just point my penis towards the walls of her vagina and rub it but no penetration and ejaculation. Then today, she felt that her stomach is bloated and she is being so paranoid. She does not feel eating too and she is feeling weak. I don't know if she's feeling those things because of what we did or she is already pregnant. Help please, thank you so much!

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Hello chrispowlthree,

Welcome to the EmpowHER community. Thank you for reaching out to us with your question.

No, sperm cannot pass through the fabric of clothing.

No, there is no risk pregnancy during oral sex.

Pre ejaculate fluid itself does not contain sperm. If you had a recent ejaculation, sperm remains in your urethra. That is the tube that urine and semen pass through. Once you urinated, sperm is flushed out.

Lastly, the vagina is inside of the body.

So, without penetration and ejaculation and not using a condom, there should not have been a risk for pregnancy.

However, if her period is late by more than one week, she could take a home pregnancy test.


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