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The start of my most recent period was on Feb 26 - projected ovulation date being March 14, projected next period March 28 (via MyMonthlyCycles, where I have been keeping track of my period for 1 year). Average cycle - 30 days.
We had protected intercourse on March 3 and 24. The condom didn't break; slipped down maybe an inch but we pushed it right back up.
Now my period is 3 or 4 days late (depending if you count the 28th), with no usual signs of cramping etc that I normally get. Took two HPT's and both came out negative. Discharge looks normal, no tenderness of breasts or anything. I have had a little bit of an upset stomach but I think I may just be getting sick - I am under quite a bit of stress.
I know it's unlikely that I am pregnant, but I am paranoid since I can't afford to have a child right now. I have heard that stress really can throw off a regular period (I have been regular for 8 years now), but I have a hard time believing it since I am so paranoid... help? I don't know what's wrong with me!
Have a GYNO appt coming up in a month, but I'm the type of person who likes to know without going to the doc! It sure would be nice if my period would come!
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Hello Anonymous,
Stress and a history of irregular menstrual cycles can explain why your period is late. However, since you are sexually active and the withdrawal method is not a reliable means of birth control, pregnancy is possible.
I suggest you schedule an appointment with a gynecologist. First, you can have a blood pregnancy test done. You could take a home pregnancy test first, but with an irregular menstrual cycle, I cannot advise you when you should test.
Secondly, a gynecologist may suggest you take oral contraceptives to regulate your menstrual cycle and prevent pregnancy.
Regards,
November 18, 2014 - 10:32amMaryann
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I haven't gotten my period yet it should have came 3 days ago. I have not been stressed me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex oct. 21st. It was great but I don't believe he came inside me. I just wanna know if I should expect a period or expect to be pregnant my period has never been late before
November 14, 2014 - 10:56pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
You can take an early response pregnancy test, or wait about five more days to test. Unprotected sex during ovulation carries a high risk for pregnancy.
Regards,
November 17, 2014 - 10:59amMaryann
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Well i did not come on my period in october but i came on nov. Whay do that mean ?
November 9, 2014 - 4:26amThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
A missed period could be a sign of perimenopause, which can start in some women during their late 40s.
Regards,
November 10, 2014 - 10:30amMaryann
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Hi my last period was Aug 30 my expexted period was step 30 I'm due end of each month n i have been tracking n my ovulation dates were mid Sept me n my husband trying to have a baby! But nothing! Doc said I HV pcos syndrome n 2 very tiny cyst on one of my ovaries but the other one was in gd shape! Earlier this year I was drinking vitex and moca to help with hormones n oculation i HV been reg for ova two years! Idk if I HV symptoms or not! I took a hot on the 10 oct but negative haven't taking one since then! Could it be change of cycle or could I be pregnant??
October 29, 2014 - 1:08pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
Hopefully, you have started your period by now. I have no knowledge about vitex or moca. Considering your history of PCOS, any concerns regarding menstrual irregularities should be discussed with your gynecologist.
Regards,
November 10, 2014 - 10:28amMaryann
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My period is late about 5-6 days. I had protected sex. Condom didnt break we checked. I wasn't on my fertile days. And he didnt cum during sex anyhow. Signs believe me to think that im okay. Ive been bloated, crampy, and was really irritable all last week.So ive had symptoms of pms and mensturation. Im in college and have been really stressed out lately by my overwhelming work load. Thoughts? How long should I wait it out?
October 29, 2014 - 6:10amThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
High stress levels lead to the increased production of cortisol, the stress hormone. It can cause your period to be late. I hope that you have started your period by now.
Regards,
November 10, 2014 - 10:25amMaryann
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Hi, me and my girlfriend touched each other for a while more than twoo weeks ago, she should have gotten her period today but no sign of cramps or pms sympts, she doesnt feel sore breasts or headaches or nausea.
October 27, 2014 - 11:54amShe had ovulating symptoms two days after we did this (cramp on the ovary area)
The only thing that worries me is that i probably had a little precum(dry) in my hand and rubbed it in the fabric before i fingered her but thats it
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