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Could this lead me to pregnancy? I'm having symptoms and I'm scared.

By February 18, 2017 - 10:05am
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I'm 17. My bf and I became sexually active about 7-8 months ago, never had sexual intercourse. I'm a little shaky on all these dates and time periods so I'm sorry if there's confusion.. I'm on birth control pills and have been for about 2-3 years but was on and off them because I wasn't taking them correctly, but I have always taken them. These last two months I've been taking them more strictly. We only ever dry hump (clothes on usually thin shorts and underwear never naked) I get fingered, and give oral and HJ for him. Sorry for the details. We decided to stop for awhile. At least 2-3 weeks maybe a month where we didn't do anything. But Feb. 1st, he fingered me and I gave him HJ at the same time. His penis was out next to me, and I'm sure I touched it a few times. Right after that I went to the bathroom and had brown blood on the toilet paper, and the next day I had some blood that turned into medium bleeding the next day, but no cramps (Is unusual) so, I cracked it up to my period. It lasted 5 days w/ no cramping and light to med bleeding. We did stuff the 5th, and the 14th and maybe one day in between (can't remember) anyways, I'm scared that if I jerk him off and he gets "precM" on our hands and then fingers me then I could get pregnant. He's never cam directly on his hand or mine then fingered me. But there could be a possibility that the precM could have (I think I would've noticed ) he also cam on my chest once but we wiped it off immediately. Anyways, I have about 2 weeks until my expected period. My nipples are a lot bigger than normal. They're also super sensitive and tender. I have some queasiness and mood swings (but that could be from the stress I'm having). Someone please explain this to me bc the internet is just stressing me more. I asked my doctors nurse what these symptoms could be and she said it's probably just me getting older. But I don't know. I want to make sure that dry humping, couldn't accidentally get preM near my vagina that could get me pregnant, he was wearing gym shorts and underwear and I was wearing thin spandex shorts. or if precM accidentally got on my hands or his then he fingered me if that could lead to pregnancy?

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Hi, Sarah.

Thank you for your post.

We have helped you several times with this issue or similar. You need to start educating yourself about sex, rather than obsessing about these very unlikely pregnancy scenarios. You cannot get pregnant from what you did. Plus, you are taking BC pills which you were told is highly effective when taken correctly. A woman cannot get pregnant unless she has unprotected sex with ejaculation inside her (or rarely) on the opening of her vagina. Pre-ejaculate does not contain sperm. But it can pick up sperm remaining in the urethra (the tube through which urine and semen pass) from a previous ejaculation. Once a man urinated, it would be flushed out.

I hope this, finally, puts all your fears to rest. Contact your gynecologist for further information.


February 18, 2017 - 12:57pm
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