I'm 17. My bf and I became sexually active about 7-8 months ago, never had sexual intercourse. I'm a little shaky on all these dates and time periods so I'm sorry if there's confusion.. I'm on birth control pills and have been for about 2-3 years but was on and off them because I wasn't taking them correctly, but I have always taken them. These last two months I've been taking them more strictly. We only ever dry hump (clothes on usually thin shorts and underwear never naked) I get fingered, and give oral and HJ for him. Sorry for the details. We decided to stop for awhile. At least 2-3 weeks maybe a month where we didn't do anything. But Feb. 1st, he fingered me and I gave him HJ at the same time. His penis was out next to me, and I'm sure I touched it a few times. Right after that I went to the bathroom and had brown blood on the toilet paper, and the next day I had some blood that turned into medium bleeding the next day, but no cramps (Is unusual) so, I cracked it up to my period. It lasted 5 days w/ no cramping and light to med bleeding. We did stuff the 5th, and the 14th and maybe one day in between (can't remember) anyways, I'm scared that if I jerk him off and he gets "precM" on our hands and then fingers me then I could get pregnant. He's never cam directly on his hand or mine then fingered me. But there could be a possibility that the precM could have (I think I would've noticed ) he also cam on my chest once but we wiped it off immediately. Anyways, I have about 2 weeks until my expected period. My nipples are a lot bigger than normal. They're also super sensitive and tender. I have some queasiness and mood swings (but that could be from the stress I'm having). Someone please explain this to me bc the internet is just stressing me more. I asked my doctors nurse what these symptoms could be and she said it's probably just me getting older. But I don't know. I want to make sure that dry humping, couldn't accidentally get preM near my vagina that could get me pregnant, he was wearing gym shorts and underwear and I was wearing thin spandex shorts. or if precM accidentally got on my hands or his then he fingered me if that could lead to pregnancy?