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girlfriend is 10 days late, use condom ! :/ very worried

By November 15, 2014 - 5:56am
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girlfriend is 10 days late, we had sex 5 days past ovulation, we use trackers and charting.
we had sex 3 times and used 3 condoms , were very careful, condom did break leak or slip etc. shes been late like this a few months ago and shes not very regular but her last two cycle is 36 days, im sure no sperm or precum had entered her, i even pulled out before ejaculation happens, shes 17 i heard that in that age menstruation is sometimes whacky, im very worried now :/ we used every preacautions and protection we could, Please helP

only sypmtoms shes having is mild sore boobs on the side but on and off mild back pain sometimes and moodynes :/ she had that sypmtoms before her expected period and on now, i dont know what to do, ive practice everything to be safe and timed everytime we had sex :/ Sick worried right now :/

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Thank you so much erin :/ i hope af would flow next week :/
thank you and god bless

November 15, 2014 - 5:25pm

Hi iichiichi,

Thank you for reaching out to EmpowHER with your question! I can see you have answered similar questions in the community before and have experienced similar circumstances with your girlfriend.

That is great that you are taking precautions like this if having sex. Yes, at 17 your menstrual cycle can be very irregular, so it is very possible that is the case. If you are using condoms and taking precaution with the days of your girlfriend’s menstrual cycle, I would say she is most likely not pregnant. However, the only way to truly be sure is to use a pregnancy test.Sometimes periods can be late for a variety of reasons like stress, birth control, illness, travel, medications, etc.

Like I mentioned earlier, I see that this has happened several times to you and your girlfriend and it is worrying you sick. I suggest maybe using a back up birth control like the pill if it is going to cause so much stress.

I hope this has helped! Please keep me updated and let me know if you have further questions.


November 15, 2014 - 5:00pm
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