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I don't know if I'm pregnant or not

By Anonymous January 12, 2017 - 7:14am
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I had my period on Jan 2 and on Jan 12 me n my boyfriend were messing around...we didnt have total intercourse...but he was rubbing his penis on my vagina n he tried entering a little but not completely. it went on for a while and later he ejaculated on my stomach....he fingering me n licked me n all....this was at around 4pm...and after the whole thing....now i feel a little weird in my stomach and im scared i might get pregnant....so cant i get pregnant by this act??? there was pre cm on his penis and there was no protection and this was our first time doing such thing. so can i be pregnant?

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Hi,I'm Adrean .
I had sex December into January and the guy came in me
Twice ,I'm not on the pill or anything .

And after he came in me,the next day I got my period .
And then we waited until itmwas done,then a day or
Two after that we had sex again ...after that I got my period

And I'm supposed to get my period on the 12th of every
Month but I think my period might be late .

Can you please give me advice ?

P.s I'm 17

February 20, 2017 - 1:24pm
Guide (reply to Miss Carter)

Hello Adrean,

You did not become pregnant. Getting your period each month afterwards was proof of that.

Now, if your period for February was due on the 12, and you still have not gotten it, that is a concern, especially if you are regular.

Have you had unprotected sex since your last period in January?

If so, time to take a pregnancy test.


February 21, 2017 - 10:16am

Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for reaching out to our community with your question, could you have gotten pregnant.

You might have been close to ovulating on January 12, depending on the length of your menstrual cycle. Most women ovulate between day 11 and day 21. To become pregnant, there must be a released egg waiting to be fertilized by sperm.

Your vagina is inside of your body. I am assuming that he rubbed against your pubic area then tried to penetrate.

Since he ejaculated on your abdominal area and not in your vagina, there was no risk of becoming pregnant.

Pre ejaculate fluid itself does not contain sperm. If he had an ejaculation just before attempting to insert his penis into your vagina, some sperm could have been in his urethra. That is the tube through which urine and semen pass. Once he urinates, any sperm would be flushed out.

All that you can do now is wait for your period for February to start. You could take an early response test about five days before it is expected to start. That is the only sure way to know whether or not you became pregnant.


January 12, 2017 - 9:11am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Thank you so much....this kinda relieved my stress....i dont know how to show my gratitude....

so wait....their is no sperm in pre cum?

January 16, 2017 - 2:52am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hell Anonymous,

That is correct, except in the example mentioned above.


January 16, 2017 - 9:42am
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