We've been dating for past few months. We've had a long distance realtionship before and it went strong on and on. We started having phone sex that lead to video sex and it was amazing. And now I am here in australia for him and he flies down every fortnight to meet me and we have a pretty awesome relationship. He gives all his after work time to me, he has told his parents about us and he really sees a future with me. Getting this serious into this relationship has made me so comfortable with him that i literally go crazy when he's around. I want to have sex badly (not that we haven't) but he's not into it. He wants to save it for future and wants to enjoy li'l things for now. We have great makeout sessions which goes to the extent of bj and rubbing and pressing bodies against each other but he never wants to put himself inside of me and i desperately want it. We no longer have phone sex, we barely talk about it. I am the one always initiating it and he simply chucks it off. What shall i do to make him horny and want me bad?
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Hello Tazytee14
Thank you for writing.
You're already doing all you can to turn him on including giving him oral sex. It sounds like he's fine with that and doesn't necessarily want more. I doubt very much after doing video sex and getting oral sex that's he "waiting" to have sex with you but perhaps he is. It sounds like you'll just have to go with the flow for now and not rush things - you can't make someone do something he isn't interested in doing.
September 21, 2017 - 2:27pmBest,
Susan
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