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By Anonymous August 23, 2017 - 8:16am
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This guy who I was getting to know and was in a relationship with engaged in some activities (I think I was ovulating)
I really think it could be my paranoia but anyway this is the situation.
We were kissing and then all of a sudden he takes my leggings off and his own trousers. He began to finger me even tho I told him not to and I was uncomfortable but he did so anyway. Anyway, he was kinda forcing me to take off my underwear (which I didn't) and he said he wasn't going to put it in- he just wanted to rub genitals for 'extra pleasure' - thankfully, I did not let him and he got off knowing that I wasn't cooperating.

I KNOW he did not ejaculate but I'm scared if he may have had pre ejaculate on his fingers (don't know if urinated and had an ejaculation earlier in a day) but just say if there was sperm on his hands and his hands just slid down my body and into my vagina- is there a chance of pregnancy? I really don't see any possibility because obviously his hands touched my body and my underwear stayed on the whole time. Please help

I have no contact whatsoever with the guy as I thought it was best to part ways as he was forcing me into doing things I am not comfortable with

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Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. It is for the best to end any contact with someone who forces you to do anything such as this.

You should not have been at any risk for becoming pregnant. He did not penetrate and ejaculate, nor did he have fresh semen on his fingers.


August 23, 2017 - 9:08am
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