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By Anonymous January 7, 2016 - 7:25am
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I had sex with my gf and after we were done i went to bathroom to see if condom is not broken i filled it with water and it was good. after I removed condom I saw some sperm on my penis, I tried washing it of but instead of soap i used some kind of cocunnut oil or sth like that. Then I put on my underwear and went back to bed, after few minutes we had sex again. I used condom again, but I am worrying about that i washed around my dick and she was sitting on me so is there any chance of getting pregnant from here? I can't say if i was dry already or not but after we had sex I realised that i washed with not the soap and maybe that could be trouble because she is saying that she is felling sick or it's just a panic sickness? Please answer and thanks for your support :)

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Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for coming to us with your concerns.

There is no way of knowing beyond a doubt. Sperm can live outside the body for about 20 minutes. Some semen might have remained on your penis because you did not wash with soap and water.
Any remaining sperm might have gotten onto her genital area. If you were wearing a condom when she sat on you, then you were safe.

The only sure way to know is if her period is late by at least seven days. She can take an early response pregnancy test five days before her period is due. For the most accurate result, she must test in the morning and use the first urine of the day.


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