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sperm in hand

By Anonymous August 18, 2014 - 2:37am
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This is how it went.

We were fooling around and touched each other two saturdays ago. after I came, I rubbed all the cm of my hand using a handkerchief. Then we paused for a while and watched a movie for about 5-10 minutes, then I proceeded to touch her on the clit. It was last that I realize that I used the same hand which I used to wipe the semen off with the hanky, and now I'm worried since she told me her period was late for a day or two already. She's still a virgin, mind you. no penetrations happened ever. She's experiencing symptoms of PMS like back aches and bloated feeling and pain on the abdomen. I'm worried though, very worried. Is there a possibility that she's pregnant?

P.S. My hand was already dry when I touched her.
P.S.S. Is it normal for a girl to discharge a white fluid before menstruation? She told me she was getting those, and it was normal for her.

I need and answer ASAP. :-(

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Hello Anonymous,

Thank you for reaching out to us with your concern. I can put your mind at ease, there was no risk of getting your girlfriend pregnant.

By wiping your hand with the handkerchief, you removed the semen.
Since your hand was dry, there was no remaining semen containing sperm left.

It is normal for a woman to have a white vaginal discharge before the start of her period.

Please, before you become more sexually active or go all the way, you must both start using birth control. You should use a condom from start to finish. She needs to find what type of birth control she is comfortable with and use it consistently.


August 18, 2014 - 9:08am
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