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By Anonymous November 10, 2016 - 6:25am
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Some1 told me that girls have a seal on vagina which is breaked after marriage and then a lil bleeding happens....I wana ask does fingering by boy intensly n forcefully on vagina causing a lil bleeding means tht seal is broken?? i mean there is no contct of vagina and penis bt vagina and male finger only??

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Thnks for reply Maryann
Does this kind of sex explaind above, can b problematic for girl if she is married to sm1 else? does it cause prblm.in getting prgnant...??
i mean her bf entered finger on vagina a few mnths back which caused a lil bleeding...They then broke up....She married sm1 else after few mnths...Does this mean she is nt virgin or can hv prgnancy issue??? Will hymen b sealed back till her marriage so her hsbnd nvr gets to knw wt was her past?
i hope u got my point.

November 10, 2016 - 10:17am
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Hello Anonymous,

No, fingering that led to a little bleeding will not cause a problem with her being able to become pregnant later on.

No, a hymen does not "seal back".

Her husband will only know if she tells him.


November 10, 2016 - 10:23am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Thanku so much for useful reply Maryann...It was really helpful. Ofcourse she ll nver tell her husbnd n start a new life with him..coz she wants to forget past mistakes she made in innocense.
thnks again. It relieved me a lot. :-)

November 10, 2016 - 11:24am

Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. I am glad you reached out to our community for the facts about the hymen, which is the "seal".

The hymen is a thin membrane that surrounds the opening to the vagina. Hymens can come in different shapes. The most common hymen in young girls is shaped like a half moon. This shape allows menstrual blood to flow out of a girl’s vagina.

The hymen can be stretched open the first time a girl has vaginal sex, which might cause some pain or bleeding.

Some people, and some cultures, believe that a woman whose hymen has been stretched open is no longer a virgin. But having a hymen and being a virgin are not the same thing.

There are other ways that a hymen can be stretched open, by inserting something into the vagina (like a tampon or a finger) riding a bicycle, or doing sports. And some girls are born with so little hymenal tissue that it seems like it was never there.

Most hymens don't fully cover the vaginal entry so that menstrual fluid can leave the body.

So, yes, fingering vigorously could possibly cause a little bleeding. But, remember, the hymen is not a seal but a thin membrane. If a hymen is stretched or torn, pain or bleeding may occurr that generally lasts for a short period of time.

I hope this is helpful to you,

November 10, 2016 - 9:24am
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